Where it happened: Japan
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 7
Category: Straight
Unfortunately, my first time did not happen nearly as early as it should have. I was extremely shy and a complete geek.
I had one opportunity in 7th grade, after school, with 2 girls, but I was afraid to do anything. Pathetic case…
Even during high school, I was “big brother” to many girls, but never more.
It wasn’t until the Air Force had me in Japan that I made the plunge, as it were. My first choice as a woman to break my cherry with, was the wife of a good friend. She was interested and flattered, but didn’t want to be my first.
Finally, just before it was time to leave, I made the decision to go to town with a friend, and get the company of a local bar girl. She and the next lady I had sex with, on a following evening, were in their 50’s and very helpful. Sadly, it was kind of an empty feeling experience. This was not anyone I knew or related with. My friends wife would have been someone I knew pretty well and could have had a much more enjoyable time.
It was several years before I even had sex again, and that was with my first wife and then on our wedding night. I was her first and she was my first real chance to make love, not just fuck. Even though we fumbled around, it was special to us, and we learned from there.
After my first wife and I split, I then started making up for some of the fun I had missed as a kid. I found some great partners and have experienced a lot. I have found though that most of my partners have been with many more people than I have. One later wife, told me that I will only regret the things I have not done, not the things I have done. There are many opportunities I have missed and do wish I had risen to the occasion.
My sister and I have compared notes over the years and she told me that her first time was a total disappointment and she wondered what all the fuss was about. The next guy she was with really rang her bell and she was hooked. She has since done many more guys than I have women.
I would have much rather to start at 12 or so, than at 21.
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