Where it happened: honeymoon
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
Believe it or not, some of us waited until marriage to have sex. I was one of those people. Before marriage, there were a few girls along the way who seemed willing and interested, but they were not my kind of girl; I wanted to wait so I never pursued them.
My (now) wife and I did go pretty far before we were married. There were make-out sessions in my apartment. Then laying down and grinding against each other. Perhaps the sweetest thing was having her braless and on top of me, while I used her shirt to massage her nipples. We would both get pretty hot, but, since we both wanted to wait, we would back off before we lost control.
So, we did not go all the way together. Although, after our sessions, it was my habit to finish myself off. And, I suspect it was her habit, too. We did not discuss this, and even now do not talk about masturbation.
Thinking about it, as I type, my first time was not so good. The night before my wedding, I spent quite a bit of solo time, so I was not in a position for peak performance when the main event arrived the next day.
On our wedding night, the physical intimacy did not go well. What had seemed to be the natural conclusion from our many make-out sessions now felt uncomfortable. My new bride was very nervous about showing her body to me, and fearful about the pain of losing her virginity. My erection was unsteady and I was feeling pressure.
After some awkward positioning, I managed to get the tip of my penis into my wife, tear her hymen and make her cry, and then lose control, squirting a ridiculously tiny amount of cum on her leg. She went into the bathtub to soak her sore bottom and cry. I sat on the bed feeling like a failure. That was our first time.
We were novices and it showed. It took all of our honeymoon to figure out how to get me fully penetrated into her vagina. Sex was painful and unpleasant for her. I continued to feel bad about that.
She could only reach orgasm by wearing panties and rubbing her bottom against my stomach. So, I could give her pleasure that way, but it was not satisfying or intimate. Her bottom pain caused her to prefer to give me handjobs. Again, it felt nice, but it’s not the same as intercourse.
It took years of marriage before she gave me my first blowjob. It was worth the wait, although it makes her gag and she does not let me cum in her mouth.
I have offered many times to lick her pussy. She has let me try a few times, but she finds it gross, and does not like the idea of putting a mouth down there. So, that is not part of our repertoire.
After 11 years of marriage, we have finally figured out how she can orgasm with me inside her. Turns out the trick is for her to be on top, with her legs brought close together as she lays on top of me. This must tickle the right spot, as she can now orgasm reliably in that position.
We’re still working on simultaneous orgasm. And, in many ways, we’re still novices. But, we’re slowly making progress. Sex is wonderful and gift from God. I don’t have any regrets about waiting for marriage. I do wish that I had married younger. And I do wish that I could have sex more often. But, I am content. And that is something.
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