Where it happened: Her flat.
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
The first time I had sex was a month & a half or so ago. There was a girl I had been flirting with increasingly for a few weeks, & the weekend before I had actually gotten around to asking her out & kissing her. We’d done a bit more than kiss after that, & I wasn’t completely inexperienced (the only reason I hadn’t had sex with a previous girlfriend was bad opportunity/contraceptive timing).
Then a few days later I went over to her place again & we started fooling around. We got naked, kissing & sucking each other, & I said to her I didn’t really want to have sex right away. I was thinking at that stage it was a bit soon in the relationship blah blah blah.
However, once she got her lips around my cock I couldn’t really say no. It was the best blowjob I’ve had to this day, & while she didn’t make me cum (I don’t cum easily from blowjobs) she DID get me horny enough to fuck her. So, eventually getting impatient that’s what I did. I told her I’d changed my mind & wanted to, she grabbed a condom & I fucked her, hard, just like she asked.
It was an interesting feeling, & I enjoyed it a lot. While I didn’t cum right away it didn’t take long, but I managed to keep going for a while afterwards, & she was quite happy (especially as I’d satisfied her pretty well already with my hands).
It was enjoyable, & we had sex several times more. Even one night getting completely plastered with her flatmate (another girl) & all fucking each other. Soon though I realised that the sex was all the relationship was really about, & there was someone more special to me than her so we broke up.
I don’t regret any of it however, despite the fact it didn’t last. Every sexual experience I’ve had so far has helped boost my confidence in general, but mainly in my interactions with women. Knowing I can flirt, attract, & generally seduce women to that point, & then sexually please them has done something extraordinary for my self-esteem (having her & her flatmate both complement the size of my penis helped too ;)).
Now I’m with someone else, who is very special too me & believes in taking it slow. I’m ok with that. We probably won’t have sex for a number of months, possibly ever, depending on how long it lasts. I do hope that it lasts though & we do get to. Now I know that I can please her however far we decide to eventually go, & I care about her so much I know it’ll be amazing.
I hope other people’s first times can be more amazing than mine, & those whose first times aren’t can learn from them & aren’t put off sex as a whole. Remember you can always try again later with someone you care about more. I’m definitely going to.
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