I suppose if one only read these posts here, we’d mistakenly get the impression that all first times are wonderful, earth-shaking events. Mine was the opposite. It’s pretty simple. gf and I had been dating for 2-3 months, and we were heavy petting on her bed, with my fingers inside of her. Finally she said, I’m tired of your fingers, I want your real dick. So I slapped on a condom that I had brought with me. Here’s where it got bad. Being as both of us were Christians being pejorative, we both felt a little trepidation. As well, my dick isn’t that long, 6 in or so, but it’s THICK. So thick that I can’t really fit into condoms well. So after I got it on, and I managed to fumble and guide myself inside of her, I asked the scintillating question, “so am I inside yet?” Seriously, because I couldn’t tell. The condom was so tight it was cutting off my circulation and making my dick limp. As well, since my gf was Asian, her pussy was tight enough that I couldn’t feel a difference between that an dthe condom anyway. Needless to say, neither of us came. Never one to back down from adversity, I took another one into the bath and we tried it there. An even worse result. I thought I was supposed to be a major stud, but all I felt like was a failure. She was very supportive since it wasn’t her first time and she never really cared that much about sex anyway. Fortunately, in the coming months we finally lost the condom and she went on the pill. It feels 1000% better without a condom, but it’s just stupid to go striaght to the pill unless you are absolutely sure of your partner’s full sexual history. We learned a lot from each other and were in love long before we decided to go to bed. Due to lifestyle problems (long story), we broke up after 14 months. She and I both moved on, getting new bfs and gfs. But after 3 years, she called me one day out of the blue. We both had significant others at the time, so the timing was awkward. However, we apparently both felt the same love and intimacy we’d shared so many years before. You never forget your first love; sex is kind of secondary. After that, we both decided to break up with our bf/gf. We both agree that if we get back together it’ll be permanent this time, since we both grew and matured in those 3 years. It remains to be seen if we DO start anew, though, since this story is happening daily, as we speak. I never thought I would want to get married…but I’d be a fool to lose the chance with my first love (and me being hers too) again. I’d say wish us luck, but luck really has nothing to do with it. I would really like to marry the first girl I slept with.
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