Who am I? I’m a 53 yr-old male who considers himself a nice guy and I saw the word “help”
So Miss Star-Gazer, it would appear that you made a mistake. That’s OK everybody makes mistakes. What’s more we do it all the time. You are not a bad person. You simply made a mistake.
If you are still bleeding, get they to your health provider. Take care of your health.
Next get yourself some condoms. Not because you are a loose woman but a flesh and blood woman who is sexy and warm and desireable and human. We are wired to have sex. That is why the human race is around for 100,000 years.
Sure, you say. I will be more careful next time. Baloony! There are many ways that your good, natural insticts will get the better of your reason. You won’t let that happen again. It will simply happen another way. Don’t mess around. Get thee some condoms.
If you really want to avoid meaningless sex (and sex should be with people that you feel really special about, who are the type of people you see yourself marrying), you should go easy on alcohol. Real easy. If you want to be virtuous and get drunk, leave your pussy at home. (just a little joke.)
As far as your friends are concerned, if the question comes up, you simply say that you made a mistake and that if they are your friend, they will help you find out what is to be learned from the mistake. They will know only if you or he tells them. If he tells them put him in the deep freeze perhaps forever. Consider this to be a chance to see what kind of friends these people really are.
People make mistakes. Good people make mistakes. Jerks make the same mistake over and over again.
Now that you have been proved to posess a woman’s body and a woman’s nervous system, act accordingly. Get GYN checkups for the bod. Think about what policies make sense for you. It’s true that men have their brains in their penis when they are aroused. But women are no better. Make some policies during periods of sanity.
I hope this helps. Now find a worthwhile lover and do it right.
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