Where it happened: with husband
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 10
Category: Straight
When my religious community was dissolved to be absorbed by another, my
calling was redirected to a secular life. My new life at age 28 was
challenging, loneliness being my major burden. When one gives, one receives
from our Lord. Accordingly, I volunteered for the Big Brothers/ Big Sisters
Organization. I was paired with Alexandria, the nine-year-old daughter of
Chistos who was raising her alone. Being widowed and having arrived in our
wonderful country only a year, he was truly a single parent.
Alex and I gave each other exactly what we needed. My larger gift was the
love that developed between Christos and me. Christos joined Alex and me
increasingly, mostly on the pretext of driving us in his car. I had not
rebuffed his hand holding mine in church or his hands on my waist while
waiting in line. I had been with Alex for fourteen months when Christos
invited me out to dinner alone and then he parked on an escarpment overlooking
the lights of New York City. We sat on a park bench with him asking me what
I wanted in my life without my realizing he was about to offer me a diamond
ring. I was unprepared for such an offer and unable to accept until the next
morning when he and Alex picked me up for church. Alex told me that she
and Christos prayed together most of the night for me to agree to marry. I
was then secure in my decision.
Christos and I began dating and made regular visits to our priest. My
major concern was whether I could satisfy Christos properly in our
marriage bed. So far, while we had long kisses on the lips and for that
activity needed Christos to instruct me, we had done little more. I asked
Christos for a weekend getaway. He responded by taking me to Marriage
Encounter where he took separate rooms for us. Marriage Encounter is
a church-sponsored activity that teaches couples, mostly already married,
how to be couples. We received further affirmation of our decision to marry.
My first time was days after our marriage. I took Christos on faith that if I
could learn to kiss, I could learn all the rest in good time. We had a two
weeks for becoming as one and Christos took his time with me. I can’t say
exactly when my first time was, because it was all so gradual. I had received increasing carnal pleasure throughout our honeymoon, but today that
pleasure is even greater. A woman could not ask for a more joyful and gentle induction into this facet of life. I am humbled by Christos’s generosity and
love which has now created a brand new soul growing within my body.
I cannot tell others what is best but waiting for marriage was correct for
Christos and me. Christos was wiser than I in this matter. Additionally, our
example has not been lost on our Alexandria, now fourteen. Our family is
marked, most of all, by a profound respect among the three of us.
I humbly submit that both bringing and requiring respect, reverence and
commitment in one’s romantic relationship will result in God-given delights
being returned.
I humbly submit that one’s first time is as good or bad as the two have
earned.
I humbly submit that one’s first time influences one’s subsequent
times.
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